Ross Wish

Discovering strength

Being bold helps you to drive forward you strength to alter the life that you have around you for others

These are the things that I was thinking recently

Know your WHY #

Work on your list of whys. One of the big thrust to success is come up with a stong enough why.

In leadrship training here what we learned:

Why - is powerfull. The How is easy

But if the Why isn't strong, If your goals aren't powerfull. If the vision isn't clear…

The old prophet sayd:

Without a vision we die

Without a vision we persih

Without a dream we're nothing

I asking you to make a list of what you want.

I am asking you to go home and work on the "Why".

Source reference

Nobody can defend you… Nobody #

Don't expect to be helped. Just don't. People don't care. But it is possible to find those who cares! It's good to go and ask other people for help… for assistance BUT! there is this BUT…

You need it to make so that it is YOU who helps YOURSELF. With outhers abilities that ones wants and can share with you. Better to be reward back! There nothing free… It's you who can defend yourself, even with arms of other poeple. But still it should be YOU who is helping yourself. With your ot others hands.

You might say it's hard to trust? Don't trust! Test the people. Test relationship, be able to get hurt. Get hurt deeply, with big thrust into you! Eventually you will get to that you will have enough of experience. Give initial free test and start from there. Everybody has a big trust credit initially, until they get a bad credit history. This is why you cannot control others, only yourselves and in this case believe your trust credit.

At home i'ts YOU who helps YOURSELF to get behaved. Parent it's just a mere presence of trying hard (some don't try or don't do anything at all!) to help you. You are the one who accepts that help or not…

In school YOU help YOURSELF with teacher experience and knowledge to get studied.

In university YOU help YOURSELF to get stuff done and be ready for exams and practice the experience that YOU need. You take experience by the aboundance of resources that is surrounded for you.

At work only YOU are responsible for YOUR career growth. Your carreer choice, your performance, your deal, your everything that you have. Get what you can, and work to be able to grab more.

Being married its YOU who is responsible for how GOOD husband/wife you are. Request from yourself how husband/wife actions you think must take, and do whatever it takes from your side. Family is a choice, its a service, its a promise, it's a will to do act of love in the worts parts that you could have together so better to do your side. You might be lucky enough that your spouse will respond the same way, no guarantee. But if you lucky its YOUR marrige and YOUR ability to carry out will do a lot.

Nobody can help you, except God and yourself. Accept it, and you will get strength.

Stay bold… #

By being specific and understand the subject you are being bold about. You need "to be willing to put your money where your mouth was"! An example, understanding and practicing dance you can show how cool and great you are at the parties. Beeng bold in dance is to standout from a masses and express it out.

Being bold about specific things, is to be decent enough for reasonable clash that you might encounter. At work, at task, at conversation about topic. Discover yourself, know where you are different and speak out loud for it!

Sacrifice wisely #

Staying bold will force you to make a decision. Ability to chose one thing and sacrificing with other option should make a lot of benefit for you. Don't do it on whim. Calculate it. Feel it. Imagine the outcome. Write down if you are ready to sacrifice it… Ask other, wiser, experience people of what will happen if you don't choose.

People work to have something for living. If you don't go to work, that meens it cost to others. It's not free. Acknowledge it.

Beeing better at something, like sports, if you are good or best in your age in your neighbour maybe it's worth to chase a dream and shoot big? It's a lot of sacrifice, but still a lot of life to live ahead.

Have a meaning… #

To everything or to something. Meaning of value or meaning for action. A purpose, a thing from which you can build up a solid ground for yourself and your deer ones! The WHY that you have should be filled with meainings, and particular meaning is transfered in any life situation that you have. Face it, use it as a weapon

…and every meaning in every of yours commitement to yourself or to other people.

Keep learning #

To have boldness it is extremely necessary to learn. Pick one, and be good about it. Would be better if you will try to even write about it or teach others. The best way to learn is practice. Practice to the mastery! Be amongh other who do the same, relocate if you can! It always worth to be close who do the thing you learn the most…

Learn is life, life is constant learning. What will you learn is not a question anymore… Will you learn, is not a question anymore… Keep learning always! Become better than yesterday, alst week or last month. Somehow, but be better than before!

Stop wasting… #

Wasting on people who drag you down, but instead being with those with whom you feel good and those people lift you up

Wasting on social media, instead if you use have a purpose of it. Uncontrolled attention focus makes more time spent and things go out from the window…

Wasting on bad habits in general

You are mortal! You will get tired! Things shall pass, and so do you… Stop wasting!

Consume enough to create #

"You will eat less than you want but more than you deserve"

Nice quote I heard in a thriller movie "The Menu" 2022

If you don't struggle and have plenty of food and drink, you have a roof where to live you can get overrellaxed and spoil yourself into unreasonable amount of consumption. It's a nature of being weak. Go along the path with least resistance. Stay away from eat! Otherwise you suffer more later…

Try to escape luxury of constant enjoyment and go to real experience of pleasure through suffer! Better suffer first and enjoy than have it other way around.

Doing so you might end up having to eat what you just deserve! And this can be more than you need or even wanted!

Focus and act within set boundaries #

Focusing… is an ability to put all possible attention in a moment that you have on thigns you repeat. Anything, anything you do, can be level to a meditative focused thing that you do. It becomes as a flow. Ability to say to incoming thoughts for handling them after what you do at the moment, is a big power!

Focusing is ability to all of the above for enough time. Focus can be trained.

To focus is when you either do what you have decided to do, or either step back and take a rest by doing nothing and let your hot hard working brain to cool down or just go to sleep. After break return back and continue doing on what you decided to.

To focus is when you have strict time in which you need to do only selected thing.

To focus is to do the word that you sayd!

To focus is to be able to build your own playground, with strict rules that YOU decided to have and apply them.

To focus is a to build your own jail for behaviour

If you fail at it, your consiousness will damage and your ego will blame you worthless. If you succeed…

Repeat… #

Small wins compile into huge win through the year. One penny a day will become a dollar a bit over 3 month. How to become richer without accumulating small wins?

Repeat the wins! Had a success? Repeat it again! Had a good morning routine for the win through the day? Repeat it! Even if its hard, will be way more easer after the "training" in a real life fight!

Consistency is a key of a talent to thrive!

Summary… #

Now that you know, it's easy to say but extremly hard to do. At least, now you know what to do!